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Rush Hour 2 (2001)
IMDB rating: 6.40
Plot: It’s vacation time for Det. James Carter and he finds himself alongside Det. Lee in Hong Kong wishing for more excitement. While Carter wants to party and meet the ladies, Lee is out to track down a Triad gang lord who may be responsible for killing two men at the American Embassy. Things get complicated as the pair stumble onto a counterfeiting plot by L.A. crime boss Steven Reign and Triad Ricky Tan, an ex-cop who played a mysterious part in the death of Det. Lee’s father. Throw in a power struggle between Tan and the gorgeous but dangerous Hu Li and the boys are soon up to their necks in fist fights and life-threatening situations. A trip back to the U.S. may provide the answers about the bombing, the counterfeiting, and the true allegiance of sexy customs agent Isabella. Then again, it may turn up more excitement than Carter was looking for during his vacation.
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Directors: Ratner Brett
Actors: Yulin Harris,Chan Jackie,Tucker Chris,Lone John,King Alan,Tsang Kenneth,Coloma Gelbert,Action,Adventure,Comedy,Crime,Thriller,
I'm In Love With 2 Men…? Lots of Answers PLEASE!!! (Adult Answers Please)?
My fiance and I have known each other for about 20 years and we have been together now for just over 3 years. My ex-boyfriend and I met in high school (he was friends with my brother and my brother introduced me to all of his friends when I started as a freshman – they were seniors). So I had a crush on my ex from 9th grade. I had relationships throughout high school and after but I always still had a crush for the next 8 years.
Well, eventually (so unexpectedly) we wound up dating and had a really whirl-wind, fantasy romance. In 3 weeks we had fallen in love. He was my first love. Btw, he’s about 4 years older then me and he was 25, I was 22 when we started dating – now he’s 32, I’m 28. We stayed together for the next 3 and 1/2 years. It’s important to mention that he had a 6 month old when we started dating and I had to adjust and accept that because he had hidden it from me initially. But I learned to love his son. During that time we planned to get married and how we’d progress into the future. I got pregnant but lost the baby. Funny how that occurred right around the time I was the most stressed in our relationship.
About 2 years in he started becoming distant but then coming back stronger than when he distanced himself. We’d still talk often and things and even be around each other a lot but he would be emotionally distant. His dad would always be trying to influence him to be more of a player while his mom (who raised him alone for the first 17 years of his life) was the opposite. His father said, if you aren’t married – you’re free. I ended up writing and mailing his dad a long letter about how important my ex was to me and how much I loved him. That I never wanted to offend him (the father) and really wanted to make his son happy. His dad seemed receptive the next time he saw me – he actually seemed embarrassed of himself and shyed away from me from then on.
Eventually, however, my ex ended up going on a date with one of his colleagues while I was out of town with some friends. This woman new me well and did it in spite of me. I stayed with him for another year and a half because I really thought he was the man for me and I believed I could get over it but I just couldn’t regain the trust. He apologized, cried and changed some of his behaviors but just not enough to really make a difference. We couldn’t get that "magic" back.
It’s weird because some of the things we shared I don’t think I could have again but they were amazing things. I was a virgin until I was 20 and I was really waiting for marriage but for him and I the "I love you" came well before any serious physical intimacy. It was many months later. Almost every night we would take a drive to this quiet place and just sit and stare into each other’s eyes for literally and hour or two. Like speaking without words. We’d have these fabulous dates at beautiful restaurants and then go to the beach and lay and talk for hours. A few times we’d get caught in the rain and it was like a movie scene – cuddled up in the lifeguard tower or running in the rain (to a dry place). We have so many memories like that.
And now it’s 7 years later and he’s divorced after 6 months of marriage and he’s been pursuing me for the past 2 years. Telling me how he never stopped loving me and his marriage was a mistake. Offering me all the things he should have 4 years ago. Wanting to be the man I want and need now. I was shy and quiet then – after being with him I’m not so shy anymore – I feel like being shy got me what it got me so now I am more determined and vocal about my needs. For him, that was the quality I was missing that makes me perfect. I know that I am different now – not so agreeable to everything like I was before. And that excites him. I had stopped talking to him but then I thought no big deal and started back a little more.
Meanwhile my fiance is the most amazing man I’ve ever met and I love him to pieces. I dream about when we’ll be married and having his children. I can’t imagine my life without him. He is ALL the things that I need and want and he treats me exactly how I want to be treated. He’s honorable because of his upbringing and that’s not a quality you see everyday. And he never gets bored of me. He just truly loves me. It’s been over 3 years and we are still pretty much the way we were in the beginning. Still really in love. And because of hardship we have lived together for 2 years, see each other everyday and still rush home to each other. I love that.
Now I find myself thinking heavily about my ex and texting back and forth with him. Even though I have avoided him for several months now I feel the urge to be with him again – not in any major way – but to spend time with him. I have some longing for him that I hate because I feel disloyal to my fiance. I dream about him and I know that the love I feel will never go away. He was my first love and so many memories are wonderful memories. Like fantasies that became
I don’t want to be with my ex. I want to know how to get over him. I want to be with my fiance and stop having feelings for my ex.
Wow – thanks Aimee, you make so much sense. I needed to hear those things. I just don’t know how to beat the urge to feel connected to him.
Likesofetch – you weren’t too wordy. The answer really made perfect sense to me. I think you are right as well.
Thank you all. Lots of great answers. I’m not trying to figure out who to be with. I’m not going to let a man like the one I have go. But I don’t want to hurt him or me. I just want to know how to move on. Ignoring my fiance hasn’t made the urge to see him go away. How do I kill the urge. It’s extremely hard to explain because I hear what you all are saying and completely agree. I’m a person who is logical and emotional but my logic has told me the right thing to do – I just need my heart to get in line with that. How do I do it????????
Just follow your heart sweatie
Glenis D | Dec 14, 2009
If you are having these thoughts for 2 men, you aren’t in love with either one.
Cut them both loose and keep looking, Mr. Right is still out there.
mrs g2 | Dec 14, 2009
lmfao
GTFO…
Tony <3 Christmas | Dec 14, 2009
see a psychiatrist asap
PaulD | Dec 14, 2009
Cancel the engagement, date the ex. Wait for an ultimatum from the current guy and make up your mind, then.
You risk that he will not offer an ultimatum.
On the other hand, go with what you got. The ex has shown misjudgment rejecting you previously and he is known to be a failure at marriage.
dis_orient_ed | Dec 14, 2009
I think you would be making a huge mistake by leaving your fiance. The other guy doesn’t deserve your trust or time. All of those things you felt for him are in the past, and the fact that he went on a date with someone else when you were together… people don’t change. He is a man and they will say anything that they know you want to hear to get you back.
It is extremely disrespectful to your fiance for you to be communicating with your ex. You are in love with him now, you aren’t in love with the other man. You like the idea of what you used to have, but the reality is that you don’t have that anymore. First love feelings are intense and never change, but he messed up, and that is decision that he made, and will have to live with for the rest of his life.
Aimee | Dec 14, 2009
Are you sure it’s not lust for one and love for the other? Remember sometimes we tend to want what we can’t have and not so good for us. Just be careful of your decision so that no one gets hurt.
PEACE IS MINE IN 2009 | Dec 14, 2009
Your ex is bad news. Stop comparing histories and look at the facts:
1) He lied to you about being a father
2) He cheated on you
3) He married another woman while you were apart
So far you haven’t mentioned anything bad about your fiancee, he sounds like a much better choice. Stop thinking about your past and leave it in the past!!
Andie | Dec 14, 2009
you answerd your own qustion why go back to someone who treats you like shit when have mr right already if it didn’t work in the past chances are it won’t work now
libh8t | Dec 14, 2009
Wow….long story
Ask ur self, "Who do i like?"
Lollipop | Dec 14, 2009
Just keep as you have been doing for the past few months or so. Sooner or later this will blow up on you and you will want to keep the guy that stays and toss the other one as he doesn’t really love you.
just the facts | Dec 14, 2009
Thier is many types of love. All you have to do is sit down and think what those types of loves you feel for each of them is. Your fiance is either your partner or you just have this infatuation with him and have a weird obsession and as for your ex hes either a friend you love a lot so that makes him different than a normal friend or he too is more of an obsession that you feel need tobe near. But those are just a few possabilities… only YOU should know.
P.S i kind of had to stop reading halfway through because i was confused by so much words but my first line of advice should still hold true.
Morq | Dec 14, 2009
You are a mess.
Get counseling.
Before you lose BOTH guys.
You are in love and living with one guy; and infatuated with another.
YOU need to get your head on straight, and quit playing one guy against the other
(inside your head, that is.)
Smitty | Dec 14, 2009
I agree that first love never die. But you have a great fiance and there’s no reason to put him down. Put your feet in your fiance’s shoes. What do you think you could feel? Your ex is your past. He knows how to deal with you because he knows your weaknesses. Don’t you have any wonderful memories with your fiance to hold on?
Jacque | Dec 14, 2009
If your fiance is the most amazing man that you love and can’t imagine your life without him, then stay with him. First loves are just that . . . first love. I’d go for the real thing and not the fantasy.
KittehKat | Dec 14, 2009
email me i am kind of in the same situation with my ex..my email is johnmello99239923@gmail.com
John | Dec 14, 2009
We never forget our first love, nor the memories they have left us with. But life goes on. You now have youre fiance in your life and im sure you wouldnt want to hurt him. It must be tough with having all those wonderful memories with your first love and being able to see yourself with him must be even harder. But at this point, try not to make your life any more complicated. I’m sure you have heard "you snooze, you lose" your first love needs to face the fact that life goes on and the choices made have taken you on different roads. its time each follows through with the decisions each of you has made. i suggest you cut ties from ex. it is really hard to stay friends with after having gone through something like that.
good luck
i hope that was of some help : /
i apologize for being to wordy but basically, you and your ex had your chance. it didnt happen. you ended up with your fiance for a reason. those feelings will eventually subside if you dont here from him to bring them back. its hard but i think you know what you should do.
likesofetch_05 | Dec 14, 2009
You’re engaged to be married, so involved in a commitment. If you want to see and spend time with the ex boyfriend, then tell your fiance. It’s simple as that.
And remember, this guy was married for what? six months and it didn’t work? He’s goofy.
If i were in your position, i’d lose the ex boyfriend and concentrate on my future with the fiance.
If you can’t do that, then spare your fiance the misery of your "grass is greener" fiasco, and break up.
letterstoheather | Dec 14, 2009
Your ex lied to you about being a father, cheated on you, had a 6 month marriage, and doesn’t respect your current commitment. What makes you think he will ever be honest and respect you. Because he knows "the right things to say"? Don’t count on it. He’s bad news.
Kaptain Obvious | Dec 14, 2009
Such a long story and, a decision that you will have to make. No one can tell you what
to do as the story is yours and you will have to decide.
Rudi A | Dec 14, 2009
